Is Everybody Doing it?

“First would be like kissing; second base would be like making out; third would be like oral sex.” -Maia, 14 years old “You Read more >>

How we leave home, that’s how we’ll join the next relationship

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] "Because of a mistake her father made, a friend of mine has a distorted view of men. She's Read more >>

Earthly Father vs Heavenly Father

     “Search me O God and know my heart.  Try me and know my        anxious thoughts.  See if there be any hurtful way in me and             lead me in the everlasting way.”  Read more >>

Born Gay?

Being attracted to the same sex was just as normal and natural to me as it was for a man and woman to be attracted to each other.  I did not want to be drawn to the same sex, in fact, I do not think anybody Read more >>

Nine Lies Men Tell Themselves About Women – by Julie Ferwerda

Read in English / Ler em Portugues / Leer en Español When the article, “Nine Lies Women Tell Themselves about Men,” was featured on CBN.com about a month ago, it was met with zealous reactions. Read more >>

Nine Lies Women Tell Themselves About Men – by Julie Ferwerda

Read in English / Ler em Portugues / Leer en Español Sitting across the table from my beautiful friend in the quaint coffee shop, my worry mounted. She was sharing details about her new whirlwind relationship Read more >>

Noelle was into Porn [Video]

"...confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much." James 5:16 Confront the habit and help Read more >>

He was Addicted to Porn: Jordy tells his story [Video]

"...confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much." James 5:16 Confront the habit and help Read more >>

Ex-Porn Stars ‘Harmony Dust’ and ‘Crissy Moran’ Meet Jesus [Video]

Harmony Dust and Crissy Moran tell their stories of how they met Jesus. (Click to play below) Visit Treasure Ministries ___________________________________ Every Young Man's Battle: Read more >>

Searching for the Perfect Love – How do I know when I’m really in love? with Valerie Rousseau

A question I often hear is, how do I know when I’m really in love. God has given us his word, so we won’t be confused when searching for the mate who will stand with us, for better or worse, Read more >>

Kiss Frogs (and Fairy Tales) Goodbye by Julie Ferwerda

In fairy tales a princess kisses a frog, and it becomes a prince. But in reality, kissing a slimy, warty, green frog won’t deliver a prince. And even kissing the wrong kinds of guys (aka frogs) won’t Read more >>

Not Controlled by Homosexuality

Wow!  I can not believe it is 2009.  Over the last couple of weeks I have had a chance to watch several movies on DVD.  I am always amazed at how the Lord will speak to us at the most unexpected times.  Read more >>

Poisonous Relationships: People we hang around with can kill our destiny – with Stephen Ernst

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View some other parts of this series here.] Imagine eating at McDonalds everyday, dropping out of high school prematurely, jumping Read more >>

Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters Part 2: Father and Daughter Dynamics [Video]

Dr. Meg Meeker has surprising news on why caring fathers can help their daughters become achievers – and avoid depression, pregnancy and more. Watch the previous video: Daughters Need Strong Read more >>

Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters Part 1: Daughters Need Strong Fathers [Video]

Dr. Meg Meeker on how fathers can prepare their daughters for Mr. Right. Watch the next video: Father and Daughter Dynamics Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters: 10 Secrets Every Father Should Read more >>

[ex-Lesbian] Yvette: a Journey from Darkness into Light – by Annetta Small

“I saw myself on my hands and knees eating stale crumbs off a dirty floor because I could not stand up and see the feast that God had for me. God, please help me to stand up and leave these Read more >>

For Girls: What is happening to me? – Puberty and Growing up

Puberty is the time when your body begins making rapid changes from childhood into womanhood. The years of these changes are called adolescence. Adolescence literally means growing up. The exact time that Read more >>

For Guys: What is happening to me? – Puberty and Growing up

Puberty is the time when your body begins making rapid changes from childhood into manhood. The years of these changes are called adolescence. Adolescence literally means growing up. The exact time that Read more >>

Be the Man: Listen to your Princess – with Stephen Ernst

Guys, lets have a heart to heart chat about a topic that makes our chiseled hearts melt like butter: Women! Just that 'one' word can make young men like us woozy as a mental image of a Princess Read more >>

Emotional Dependency

For another very eye-opening article on Emotional Dependency, click here I met ‘Greg’ in high school through the drama team. He just came up to me one day and asked me to make him laugh, so I did. Read more >>

Holidays not so Happy for Gays

Merry Christmas!  I remember when I was in the lifestyle my Christmases being full of anxiety.  I was torn between family and the emotional dependency of wanting to be with my partner.  There was no Read more >>

Deceived by Homosexuality

Being attracted to the same sex was as normal and natural to me as it was for a man and woman to be attracted to each other.  I did not want to be drawn to the same sex, but for me these same sex attractions Read more >>

Fight Homosexuality by Reaching Out

Several blogs have talked about readers being tempted by same sex attractions, yet being able to resist and not fall into homosexual sin.  Praise the Lord you have stayed pure!  This has made me reflect Read more >>

Goodbye Homesexuality – Hello Loneliness?

How does one deal with the “loneliness of accepting that there is to be no intimate relationship in one’s life?”  Great question from a blogger and a struggle I have had to wrestle with in my own Read more >>

Homsexuality – The Great Deception

There are two articles I recommend you read.  One is When Christians Come Out of the Closet  and the other one is An Ex-Gay Speaks Out.  Satan is a liar and a deceiver.  What do you think we as Christians Read more >>

Homosexuality – What Do We Really Believe?

We have got to settle within our hearts what we really believe God is saying on this subject.  If we do not, then we will continue to leave the door cracked for satan to come in and make us doubt the Read more >>

I love my friend… by Yvette Schneider

I had a friend in high-school who was my first best-friend.  We spent all of our free time together.  For the first time in my life, I felt loved and accepted for who I was. This was an exciting time Read more >>

Dave: Popularity

In high school, all Dave wanted was to be popular. Realizing that the friends he had tried so hard to impress weren’t true friends, he began to discover the things that really matter in life. Above: Read more >>

Can Fairy Tales Come True?

There is something very appealing about fairy tales. We all want to believe that Cinderellas can become princesses, and that men can become White Knights, saving damsels in distress.  But, fairy tales Read more >>

When You Hate Your Daughter’s Date

Parents have a challenging task—to raise children in a loving environment with Godly values and to the point where they have their own wings, and then to let go and watch them fly.  But what if your Read more >>

Balance Pleasing Others and Yourself

Many seem to feel the freedom to tell us what we ought to think, how we ought to behave and even what we ought to feel. They know what’s best for us and exactly how we should live our lives.  These Read more >>

The Controlling Woman

When it comes to issues of control, we most often think about men being the controllers and women being the victims of that control. While I believe that men are often guilty of being controlling, I receive Read more >>

Accepting Yourself

Perhaps it is because I see so many people who are plagued with self-doubt, guilt and self-recrimination. It may be because so many of my clients slip easily into depression and hopelessness. For myriad Read more >>

Myself, My Wife and Porn

I was reluctant to write another column on pornography, however, the emails keep coming in about the absolutely devastating impact this addiction has on marriages. In my book, Breaking Everyday Addictions Read more >>

Teenagers and Addiction

There are 22.6 million Americans addicted to drugs and alcohol. To say that America has a problem is an understatement. There are nearly 35 million families with children at risk for drug and alcohol addiction. But Read more >>

Don’t Repeat the Same Mistakes

We are definitely creatures of habit. We do the same things, each and every day, often in patterned behavior. While as much as we espouse being flexible, resilient and adaptable, more often than not we Read more >>

Are You Enabling Weakness?

Codependence. We’ve heard about it, but it often takes forms we don’t quickly recognize. It can take the form of settling for something we know in our hearts is wrong. It can take the form of saying Read more >>

Real Change Requires Real Action

We’re a nation of aspirin and Prozac. We’re taking naturopathic remedies in historic quantities. We want to feel better and stop at little to achieve it—except for taking real action. Why is it Read more >>

Book Review: Set-Apart Femininity by Leslie Ludy

Set-Apart Femininity: God’s Sacred Intent for Every Young Woman By Leslie Ludy Harvest House Publishers, August 2008 ISBN: 978-0736922869, 240 pages This empowering message is filled with inspiring Read more >>

Filling the void of masculine love from the wrong places

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] I am involved in a large, very lively church packed with youth. Often a whole group of Read more >>

The Gateway to a Blessed Life: Honoring Parents

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] Honor = Value Children, obey your parents because you belong to the Lord, for this Read more >>

The power of parents and family in our lives

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] We underestimate the power of family in our lives. Just like we eat different nutrients Read more >>

ex-Gay: God’s Amazing Grace – The Testimony of Stephen Bennett

Read article in Portuguese / Leia este artigo em Portugues In the fall of 1981, as an 18 year old aspiring artist with a dream, and a freshman at one of New York's art schools, I reached one of the Read more >>

Datetalk Audio Series on with Wolfi Eckleben

The Datetalk Audio Series with Wolfi Eckleben It is recommended that you listen to the talks in order. 1: Make Me One! Low Quality MP3 - Download Medium Quality MP3 - Download 3: Read more >>

The Truth about Sex – Part 2 by Bob and Dannah Gresh

Too many Christian guys just don’t understand sex — and end up misusing this awesome gift from God. Some teens say things like, "Why wait?" What’s more, the world is eager to send you sexual Read more >>

The Truth about Sex – Part 1 by Bob Gresh

The Book of Romance by Tommy Nelson tells of a man who visited a community of people who lived by a river. As evening approached, the man was invited to sit down by the river and enjoy a cool beverage Read more >>

Love by Chris Schelin

There was once a kind, compassionate shepherd who tenderly cared for his flock. Every morning he would open the gate to the pen where he kept his sheep, and he would call each sheep by name to lead Read more >>

This is my Story by Nick Paul

Well, this is my story. It's something I'm no longer ashamed to admit. Some might say I should be ashamed of it. Though it was disgusting and it was disgraceful, I am not ashamed to admit it because Read more >>

Perfect Love by Vicki Courtney

Read in English / Leer en Español I remember the first time I experienced proclamations of love from someone who didn't fall into the relative category. It was my 3rd grade class Valentine's party. Read more >>


How HIV Turned James Hartline to Christ

He spent more than 30 years living a gay lifestyle, but James says he wasn’t born that way. Read more >>