Post Tagged with: "dating"

/ February 14, 2011 12:56 pm

Valentines Sanity Tips

[ Clique aqui para ler o artigo em Português ] A lot of people I know struggle with the whole ‘single’ thing. Let’s realise God isn’t calling us to the common dating scene that breaks hearts – He wants two people – set apart working as one team to achieve HIS AMAZING PURPOSES through relationships. You are a prized possession! [...]

/ February 14, 2011 12:51 pm

dicas para um namoro saudavel

[ Click here to read article in English ] Eu conheco muitas pessoas que estao enfrentando a questao de estar solteiro. E preciso entender que Deus nao esta chamando a gente para um cenario de namoro comum que no final sempre quebra coracoes – Ele quer que duas pessoas – estejam juntas em perfeita uniao alcancando seu maravilhoso proposito atraves [...]

/ January 9, 2011 9:27 pm

Nove mentiras que homens contam para eles mesmos sobre as Mulheres – por Julie Ferwerda

Read in English / Ler em Portugues / Leer en Español Quando o artigo, “Nove mentiras que mulheres contam a elas mesmas sobre os Homens“, foi apresentado na CBN. Aproximadamente ha um mês atrás, ele foi recebido cautelozamente.  Dezenas de mulheres me escreveram relatando que haviam caído naquelas mentiras muitas vezes, enquanto que os homens acharam uma “degradacao aos homens”. Eu [...]

/ January 9, 2011 9:26 pm

Nove Mentiras que mulheres dizem para elas mesmas sobre Homens – por Julie Ferwerda

Read in English / Ler em Portugues / Leer en Español Sentada na mesa com minha bonita amiga em uma caféteria, a minha preocupação foi ativada. Ela estava compartilhando detalhes sobre seu novo relacionamento turbilhão que havia começado alguns meses antes. “Eu finalmente encontrei o cara que eu tenho estado a falar na Internet. Depois de ligacoes e mensagens de [...]

/ January 9, 2011 9:21 pm

Porque eu larguei Johnny Depp por um rapaz sensivel – Julie Ferwerda

Title Picture Creative Commons by mamchenkov Leia este artigo em Ingles / Read article in English Eu embarassadamente admito, houve um tempo que eu tive fascinacao por rapazes ( e piratas com lineador nos olhos ) como Johnny Depp- viril, aventuroso, selvagem e imprevisivel, e muito homem. Havia alguma coisa misteriosa e obrigatoria sobre rapazes como aquele… alguma coisa que [...]

/ January 9, 2011 9:18 pm

ex-Gay: Maravilhosa Graça de Deus – O Testemunho de Stephen Bennett

Leia este artigo em Ingles / Read article in English Maravilhosa Graça de Deus – O Testemunho de Stephen Bennett No outono de 1981, como um artista aspirante de 18 anos de idade com um sonho e um calouro em uma das escolas de arte de Nova York, cheguei a um dos períodos mais negros da minha vida. Em uma [...]

/ January 9, 2011 8:50 pm

Rebellion: Our Parents, Our Love Life with Stephen Ernst

Leia este artigo em Portugues / Read article in Portuguese [Most names used in stories have been changed to protect identities] Ray and Elena’s story Let me relay a true story to you about Ray and Elena, – a middle aged couple with two kids, – Kim and Susan: Ray and Elena met at a youth group many years ago. [...]

/ January 9, 2011 8:48 pm

Rebeliao: nossos pais, nosso amor na vida por Stephen Ernst

Leia este artigo em Ingles / Read article in English [A maioria dos nomes usados em histórias foram alterados para proteger a identidade] Ray e história de Elena Deixe-me retransmitir uma história verdadeira sobre Ray e Elena, – um casal de meia idade com dois filhos, – Kim e Susan: Ray e Elena se conheceram em um grupo de jovens, [...]

/ January 9, 2011 8:36 pm

Romance Sagrado: Descobrindo o que e realmente o verdadeiro amor

[ Read article in English ] Eu li hoje nos jornais como Paris Hilton e seu namorado Benji Madden terminaram seu relacionamento. Hilton disse que ama ele, e mais “ele e um homem maravilhoso e ele e meu melhor amigo ele tem sido muito bom e leal. Nos sempre seremos muito proximos. Vamos ver o que  acontece no futuro.” Ela [...]

/ January 9, 2011 8:27 pm

Sacred Romance: Discovering what True Love really is

[ Read article in Portuguese ] I read today on the news how Paris Hilton and her boyfriend Benji Madden had separated. Hilton said that she loves him, and added, “He’s such an amazing man and he’s my best friend and he’s been so great to me and so loyal. We’ll always be very close. We’ll see what happens in [...]

/ January 9, 2011 8:12 pm

8 Good Reasons to Have Sex Now by Julie Ferwerda

Read in English / Ler em Portugues / Leer en Español Girl – I love him I want him to be my first He’s waited long enough I don’t want to lose him Guy— I love her We’ve been going out for a long time I have needs It’s time we took our relationship to the next level Hey, why [...]

/ January 8, 2011 5:00 pm

Trate Ela como se fosse sua princesa, E nao como uma Prostituta

Leia este artigo em Ingles / Read article in English Relacionamentos Realidade: Um chuta na bunda para os garotos e um manual de instruções para as garotas Como segurar isso? Então se você e um rapaz de sangue quente… um cara! Se você e como a maioria dos rapazes sobre o planeta, você poderia tomar isso como elogio quando alguem [...]

/ January 7, 2011 9:38 pm

Treat her like your Princess, not your Prostitute

Read article in Portugues / Leia este artigo em Portugues Relationship Reality: A kick in the butt for guys and a handy reference guide for the girls How’s it hanging? So you’re a warm blooded male… a guy! If you are like most guys on the planet, you would take it as a compliment when someone says that you are [...]

/ May 3, 2010 11:36 am

Nueve mentiras que las mujeres creen sobre los hombres – por Julie Ferwerda

Read in English / Ler em Portugues / Leer en Español Sentado al frente de mi hermosa amiga en esa pintoresca cafeteria, de pronto una preocupacion me vino. Ella me estaba contando detalles de su nueva y agitada relacion amorosa que habia comenzado hace un par de meses. “Finalmente he conocido aquel chico que me estuve contactando en el internet. [...]

/ May 3, 2010 11:32 am

Nueve mentiras que los hombre creen sobre las mujeres – por Julie Ferwerda

Read in English / Ler em Portugues / Leer en Español Cuando el articulo “Nueve mentiras que las mujeres creen sobre los hombres” fue publicado hace un mes en CBN.com, fue recibido con reacciones muy entusiastas. La reaccion que recibi de docenas de mujeres podria catalogarse como que ellas mismas habian sido victimas de esas mentiras, en comparacion a la [...]

/ May 3, 2010 11:29 am

Ocho razones validas para ahora tener relaciones sexuales

Read in English / Ler em Portugues / Leer en Español Chica - Lo amo Quiero que el sea el primero El ha esperado suficiente No quiero perderlo Chico – La amo Hemos estado saliendo juntos por mucho tiempo Tengo necesidades Es hora de dirigir nuestra relacion al siguiente paso Digame, porque esperar? Esas son algunas buenas rezones para tener [...]

/ March 16, 2010 11:01 pm

8 Razões para ter Sexo Agora por Julie Ferwerda

Read in English / Ler em Portugues / Leer en Español Garota – Eu o amo Eu quero que ele seja o meu primeiro Ele esperou  tempo suficiente Eu não quero perdê-lo Rapaz - Eu a amo Estamos saindo por um longo tempo Eu tenho necessidades É tempo de levarmos a nossa relação para o próximo nível Ei, por que esperar? [...]

/ June 13, 2009 2:10 pm

Why I Dumped Johnny Depp for a Sensitive Guy – by Julie Ferwerda

Title Picture Creative Commons by mamchenkov Leia este artigo em Portugues / Read article in Portuguese I sheepishly admit, there was a time when I had a fascination for guys (and pirates who wear eyeliner) like Johnny Depp—virile, adventurous, untamed, unpredictable, and very male. There was something mysterious and compelling about a guy like that … something that left me [...]

/ March 16, 2009 11:05 pm

How we leave home, that’s how we’ll join the next relationship

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] “Because of a mistake her father made, a friend of mine has a distorted view of men. She’s constantly complaining about them and is annoyed by them. She mistrusts most men. They better not make a mistake, for every mistake is magnified. [...]

/ January 19, 2009 10:56 pm

Nine Lies Men Tell Themselves About Women – by Julie Ferwerda

Read in English / Ler em Portugues / Leer en Español When the article, “Nine Lies Women Tell Themselves about Men,” was featured on CBN.com about a month ago, it was met with zealous reactions. The dozens of women I received feedback from could relate to having fallen for those very lies, while the handful of men I heard back [...]

/ January 17, 2009 5:11 pm

Nine Lies Women Tell Themselves About Men – by Julie Ferwerda

Read in English / Ler em Portugues / Leer en Español Sitting across the table from my beautiful friend in the quaint coffee shop, my worry mounted. She was sharing details about her new whirlwind relationship that had begun a couple months earlier. “I finally met that guy I’ve been talking to on the Internet. After calling and text messaging [...]

/ January 8, 2009 11:57 pm

Searching for the Perfect Love – How do I know when I’m really in love? with Valerie Rousseau

A question I often hear is, how do I know when I’m really in love. God has given us his word, so we won’t be confused when searching for the mate who will stand with us, for better or worse, until parted by death. With divorce at an all time high, we need godly wisdom more than ever in choosing [...]

/ January 7, 2009 11:14 pm

Kiss Frogs (and Fairy Tales) Goodbye by Julie Ferwerda

In fairy tales a princess kisses a frog, and it becomes a prince. But in reality, kissing a slimy, warty, green frog won’t deliver a prince. And even kissing the wrong kinds of guys (aka frogs) won’t get you a good husband. When it comes to romance, the choices you make now will affect your life. Satan knows that if [...]

/ December 23, 2008 11:39 pm

Be the Man: Listen to your Princess – with Stephen Ernst

Guys, lets have a heart to heart chat about a topic that makes our chiseled hearts melt like butter: Women! Just that ‘one’ word can make young men like us woozy as a mental image of a Princess we know, – or dream of,  fills our minds. Maybe she’s the blond that sits across the room in History class. Perhaps [...]

/ November 19, 2008 9:24 pm

Filling the void of masculine love from the wrong places

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] I am involved in a large, very lively church packed with youth. Often a whole group of us would go to the local restaurants in the city – to an area renown for its gay bars. It touches my heart to see [...]

/ November 19, 2008 9:17 pm

The Gateway to a Blessed Life: Honoring Parents

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] Honor = Value Children, obey your parents because you belong to the Lord, for this is the right thing to do. “Honor your father and mother.” This is the first commandment with a promise: If you honor your father and mother, “things [...]

/ November 19, 2008 9:08 pm

The power of parents and family in our lives

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] We underestimate the power of family in our lives. Just like we eat different nutrients and vitamins to help us develop, God places a variety people in our lives to form us in different ways. Family is a core ingredient for healthy [...]

/ November 18, 2008 12:05 am

ex-Gay: God’s Amazing Grace – The Testimony of Stephen Bennett

Read article in Portuguese / Leia este artigo em Portugues In the fall of 1981, as an 18 year old aspiring artist with a dream, and a freshman at one of New York’s art schools, I reached one of the darkest periods in my life. On a cold rainy night, far away from home I acted out on feelings I had [...]

/ November 17, 2008 10:02 pm

Datetalk Audio Series on with Wolfi Eckleben

The Datetalk Audio Series with Wolfi Eckleben It is recommended that you listen to the talks in order. 1: Make Me One! Low Quality MP3 – Download Medium Quality MP3 – Download 3: Understanding the Opposite Sex Low Quality MP3 – Download Medium Quality MP3 – Download 5: Sex and God’s City! Low Quality MP3 – Download Medium Quality MP3 [...]

/ November 17, 2008 9:36 pm

Love by Chris Schelin

There was once a kind, compassionate shepherd who tenderly cared for his flock. Every morning he would open the gate to the pen where he kept his sheep, and he would call each sheep by name to lead them it outside. Each of the sheep would follow this shepherd because each knew his firm but loving voice. As he herded [...]

/ November 16, 2008 11:08 pm

Subversive Masculinity by Sarah Hinlicky

There are some things in life that are better defined by examples than formulas. Masculinity is one of them. Whenever I’ve attempted a dictionary-precise definition of masculinity, I’ve always tripped myself up in endless qualifications and asides. So now instead I collect little anecdotes to illustrate the concept to my liking. Here is one of my favorites. One weekend last [...]

/ November 14, 2008 6:01 pm

Back to school: Learning to love

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] I can remember my exam days in school and university – just a few years back. I was never the academic kid of the family – that was my brothers spotlight. For me – exams existed to be passed, and I generally [...]

/ November 14, 2008 6:01 pm

They just can’t love?!: The myth and the reality

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] I have heard it said before that some people don’t know how to love their soul mate. I have also heard it said that some people just go a lot deeper than others. The first statement is true – some people do [...]

/ November 14, 2008 6:01 pm

We learn how to commit and love by practicing with our family

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] If you are a guy, your mother may have said: “Johnny, be sure to look out for a girl that relates well to her dad, because that’s how she will treat you one day if you marry her.” If you are a [...]

/ November 14, 2008 6:00 pm

Our relationship with our parents radically affects our future love relationships

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] Ray and Elena’s story Let me relay a true story to you about Ray and Elena, – a middle aged couple with two kids, – Kim and Susan: Ray and Elena met at a youth group many years ago. Ray was ‘the [...]

/ November 14, 2008 6:00 pm

Our Parents. Our Love Life: Beginning to value my parents allows me to value my future mate.

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] Father and son: A journey to reunite Jai grew up most of his life in India. He adds flavor his friends like sweet chutney adds flavor to a good curry meal. He has big heart, oozing life whenever you are around him. [...]

/ November 14, 2008 5:40 pm

I feel as if I can’t love or commit like I should

[This article is part of the 'Honor Parents, Value Soulmate' series. View other parts of this series here.] In relating to my young single friends I have quizzed many of them on their relationships with their parents, – specifically their relationship with their father. My findings were sad and shocking. I found out that many of my friends had experienced [...]

/ November 4, 2008 5:37 am


What is Sexy? How hot is too hot? What is technically pure? – with Hayley DiMarco – [Video]

What is Sexy? How hot is too hot? What is technically pure? From the author of Dateable, Mean Girls, Sexy Girls, and Technical Virgin – Hayley DiMarco [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEQVlzNeTq0[/youtube]